(this is how it is for girls anyway. it may not apply as much to guys)
There are many things you learn in life, many before you are considered a legal adult, tho people dont always give you credit for it. Here is what i was thinking...
As you grow up you realize alot of different things..
People change and so do things, nothing ever stays the same for long. Just when you start to get used to how things are, it seems that life throws you another curve ball. No matter how far away from God you may get, he is always ready and waiting with open arms to forgive you and get you back on the path you need to be on to lead a life for him. Friends come and go but family is always there. You may not always like them, you may fuss and fight all the time, but your family is there the only ones that love you truly that are here on this Earth. No matter how much you love someone they will always break your heart. It does not matter how much they love you and care about you either, we all make mistakes and that is one of many everyone does. Some cases are worse than others but its up to you to pray to God and ask for the wisdom for what you need to do. If you feel that they are truly sorry and want a second chance then give it to them, if you feel its right. If not, you need to stand up for yourself and no matter how much it may hurt you would be better off without them. It is not right to sit around praying that someone you "love" will change just cause they "love" you. People never change for you no matter how much they say they "love"you. You may think they did but really, normally, they act that way for you and go behind your back and continue their own way.
Also, you will have many difficult decisions to make even before your out of high school. Hard times will deffinately effect your life and the way you see things from then on out. Past relationships will always be brought into new ones, cause you always hold on to part of your past no matter what. People always judge you by your looks first, and by what your reputation is. You should always be cautious about what you say cause there is someone out there who is jealous and would do anything to kill your reputation just so they could take your place on the social ladder. The devil will and can attack you full force at any moment of any day no matter where you are or what you are doing.
The only thing you can rely on ALL the way thru your life is the love of Jesus Christ, Our Lord and Savior.
Very True and Very Good.
ReplyDeleteyou are a perceptive young woman. praying for you girl!
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